Romans 2: 4 & 5 says; “(4) Or despisest thou the riches of his goodness and forbearance and longsuffering; not knowing that the goodness of knowing God leadeth the to repentance? (5) But after thy hardness and impenitent heart treasurest up unto thyself wrath against the day of wrath and revelation of the righteous judgement of God;” If the truth be known, patience is not one of our virtues. Most people struggle in the area of having patience, especially with others. But it is important to consider the needs and thoughts of others, particularly when things are out of control. But we must also guard against selfishness. Patience is not simply “teeth - clenched” endurance. It is an attitude of expectation.
Patience also speaks of a person’s steadfastness when irritated or experiencing conflict. Enduring ill – treatment without anger or retaliation is a fruit of the Spirit, referred to in Scripture as self – control. Our lives are to be characterized by patience, for it is important in developing stable character and integrity. This is why God allows difficulties, inconveniences, trials, and even suffering to come our way for a specific purpose: they help develop the right attitude for the growth of patience in our lives.
“Be patient” the Bible says. James 5: verse 7 & 8 this; “(7) Be patient therefore, brethren, unto the coming of the Lord. Behold, the husbandman waiteth for the precious fruit of the earth, and hath long patience for it, until he receive the early and latter rain. (8) Be ye also patient; stablish your hearts: for the coming of the Lord draweth nigh.” The farmer patiently watches his barren ground because he knows there will be results. He has patience in his labors because there will be products of his labor. As we strive to live for the Lord, we must exhibit patience knowing that our obedience to Him will result in good fruits that He will accept in eternity.